Our lives are shaped according to our preferences because human beings have a will. One has two families, one of which is born from birth, and the other is formed by later selection. Allah has created his purpose by creating reproductive organs and wanted the continuation of the human generation. For this, sexuality has made an element of pleasure. He ordered marriage for a clean generation and forbade adultery. The prophets who were practical practitioners of religion also got married and had children. One of our most important choices in life is the choice of spouse. One will be the partner of life in the world and the mother or father of his children. For this, the person must first know himself and decide he wants to marry to what kind of person. When choosing a spouse, it should be chosen by paying attention to the religion and morality before the temporary features such as wealth and beauty. In this article, we have made a research on who can be preferred in choosing a spouse and what criteria should be given importance when choosing a spouse.